Start Before You’re Ready (Or Stay Where You Are)
Are you tired of being a bench-warming loser? Or do you enjoy fetching the star players water, never being acknowledged?
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Don’t answer that with a snarky reply. Imagine what that feels like in your body.
Those irritable chemicals your body produces that boil to the top every time you choose against your next level, I like to call it loseracid.
Hehe. 🙃
Not really, but you’re activating and reiterating how aligned you are with losing and maintaining a loser mentality. So much so that you automatically choose the undisciplined, misaligned, low-vibrational options every single time without fail.
One of the most important decisions of my life was when I decided to no longer be a loser. Yes, I admit for a good portion of my adulthood I was performing the bare minimum while expecting a lottery ticket to fall into my hand (mind you, I don’t even play).
That’s some lame, loser sh** right there. Like, how dare I dream big and choose to never wake up and even take action toward my own dreams?
This isn’t about money or external validation. My mentality was warped around a mind-created fantasy, and I was just observing it. I was making edits and upgrades in my mind while still choosing to eat poorly, doom scroll with an addiction to cheap dopamine, and ignore the importance of financial freedom through my habits.
I call that a hot mess.
But during that time, I was unaware because I was dousing myself with meaningless affirmations that I didn’t believe, vision boards the future me had to earn, and the habit stack of a rock, just there serving no purpose.
This sudden awakening and awareness of my state was a pivotal moment in my life, and given the vastness that is time and space, this speck of a moment in my life will change human history.
You see, building a rich life on purpose has to be intentional. There’s no other way. And when I acknowledge that my role in human history is just as important as Artemis II orbiting the moon and the Black woman, Katherine Johnson, whose work made it all happen with her mathematical genius, I see how important we all are.
Whether you’re doing it to be honored or not for your work, choosing to live with the intent of richness is groundbreaking.
The opposite of greed, this type of richness can’t be sold or bought. Imagine living every day choosing peace and joy despite what’s happening around you. Consciousness, presence, reflection, all because you decided to answer a call.
The one that called out your loser habits. That’s the call I hope you answer, and quickly.
And here’s the good news for anyone who’s just waking up to their truth: you don’t have to be ready to start. In fact, starting is what gets you ready. Everything before that is speculation and assumptions. It’s the reason I created the Start Before You’re Ready 7-day Challenge. <—click here, it’s free!
So many of you have expressed the need to habit stack, but the 100-day commitment is far too high. If you haven’t built a trusting relationship with yourself, I understand. This 7-day challenge is completely free and was made for anyone looking to change their life in seven days. All it takes is for you to make a decision. My workbook will guide you through as you focus on one habit in one area of your life for seven days.
I want you to relinquish your loyalty to living like a loser and change teams, change leagues, change the whole game, and put it in your favor.
You deserve to live a rich life on purpose, and I want to guide you along the way.
Peace Out. Peace In.
-Spivey J.